Note that this is a bit out of chronological order on the blog. This actually was pre-Croatia in summer, 2014. For whatever reason, we took very few pictures on this trip.
Day One; arrival day
This family summer trip came about because my husband was
able to attend a conference and not use vacation time to do it. Every year,
conferences are held on the Cape related to his line of work, so we are hoping
to make it a tradition. For the past three years, we have rented a cottage
along the Connecticut shore to share with his parents for a week, so this would
be instead of that trip. We had not been to the Cape in more than ten years and
neither of us really knew much about what to expect or do while there.
We rented a cottage by using the website homeaway.com. Renting this way, and sending someone you’ve
never met a fairly large check, feels a bit nerve-wracking. It’s hard to know
exactly what to expect at the cottage and, therefore, to know what to pack.
Given that this was our fourth year doing this type of arrangement, we had some
idea of what we needed and didn’t need, though as it turned out, this year’s
cottage was far better stocked than our previous three rentals.
One thing we learned before we left is that getting to Cape
Cod can be very challenging due to traffic. It turns out that the Cape is
actually an island separated from the mainland by the Cape Cod Canal. There are
exactly two bridges, with two lanes of traffic each direction, crossing said
canal. This is a huge bottleneck as traffic coming from several different
directions converges in one small area. On a typical Friday night or Saturday
morning, traffic can be backed up for ten miles. Given that we were traveling
on a Saturday, the worst day to get onto the Cape, we decided to wait until
later in the day. Basically, we had read that you need to either get there
early or late to avoid the worst of it. Knowing that for us, getting up early
and leaving our house at some ungodly hour just wasn’t happening, we opted to
have a more leisurely Saturday. Plus, we were not allowed to check in to the
cottage until 2pm, so we knew that if we got there early, we’d have to find
something to do. Normally, that would not be an issue, but for this trip, we
borrowed my mom’s pickup truck, which meant that all of our stuff would be out
in the open for anyone to take.
We also researched the best route to take from where we live
in Central Connecticut, and opted for a slightly less direct, but far less trafficked
route that would take us through Rhode Island and past the very southern tip of
Massachusetts, through New Bedford and Fall River. This allowed us to avoid the
horrendous interchange on the Mass Pike and Route 495 that we have frequently
driven past and praised heaven that we were not trying to go to the Cape. It
also avoided all tolls.
Along the way, we decided to stop for lunch. We were on the
Connecticut – Rhode Island border, and it was, frankly, a no man’s land. We
Yelped a few spots, and finally decided on a place that sounded much like the
others. Just a bar and grill kinda spot. I had to go back and review my check
ins just to recall the name. It’s Granite Farm Restaurant located just off of
Route 6 in North Scituate, RI. The food was like what you’d expect at
Friendly’s. It was completely empty as we had missed the lunch “crowd.” It was
really not bad at all, but nothing fancy. They did have good beer on tap and
lots of interesting mixed drinks, but given the long drive ahead of us, we did not
indulge.
We did not stop again until we got to our destination. We
listened to traffic updates along the way, and we did manage to miss the worst
of it, though once we got close to the bridges, things did slow way down. It
really was not too bad, and our Easter weekend drive to DC made this look very
tame. We arrived at the cottage after about 4.5 hours on the road, including
our stop for lunch. Given that Google Maps says 3.75 hours with no traffic or
stops, 4.5 was not bad at all.
The cottage was located in Eastham, MA, a little ways off
the main road. Eastham is considered “outer Cape” as it is just a few towns
away from the very tip. It is home to many beaches on both the ocean and bay
side, as well as a healthy selection of seafood shacks and mini golf spots. It
was not hard to find our cottage, once I figured out the address which I had
somehow lost. Luckily I remembered the landlord’s name and looked it up because
I knew that he lived at the same address. We did drive by the driveway once, as
it was quite a narrow little opening, though we eventually figured out a whole
parking pattern that made getting into and out of the driveway pretty easy. The
cottage sits on the same piece of land and the landlord’s (huge and beautiful)
home, but it felt very private because it was surrounded by trees and
shrubbery.
The interior was pleasantly surprising. It was very clean,
furniture was in very good condition, with a new TV and stove. All flooring was
in good shape. It was very well-stocked with kitchen supplies, and they even
provided us with paper towels, a brand new sponge, a couple of dish towels, and
soap, amenities that were definitely lacking in previous rentals. It was only a two bedroom, with one room
holding a queen bed, and the other a double and twin. Though it was objectively
small, it felt fairly spacious for the four of us. While we were unpacking the
truck, the landlords turned up to say hello. Both husband and wife were very
welcoming, friendly, and knowledgeable about the area.
After settling in a bit, we decided to go check out the
beach. We knew going into this that the cottage was not right on the beach, but
what we didn’t know what the roads to get there were entirely not friendly to
pedestrians. It was not a crazy walk by any means, but too far to bring all of
our beach gear. That was fine for tonight because all that we really wanted to
do was go check things out. Following the directions from the landlords, we
headed on down. This is on the Bay side, where the water is warmer and generally
calmer. When we got that, tide was WAY out. It was kind of shocking how far
away the water was, and it was really beautiful as the sun was just getting low
in the sky. We found all kind of little wildlife in the tidal pools left
behind. We ended up walking a ways on the beach and taking a different route
back to the cottage. Mostly what we did on the walk back was drool over the
beautiful homes with amazing views and even check real estate priced on our
phone. Of the three guesses – mine, my husband’s, and my nine year old son’s –
my son came the closest with his price guess for a property that was for sale.
We were all ready to go get dinner. I had heard about a spot
called Arnold’s from multiple regular Cape goers, and given that it was
extremely close to our cottage, it was an obvious choice for our first night’s
dinner. What we were not prepared for was the extremely long line and that they
took cash and check only. (Technically, I had been warned about both of those
things but had hoped we’d be too late for the former, and I’d forgotten the
latter.) Given the long line, I decided that rather than spend an extra $8 in
ATM fees, I would simply run back to the cottage with DH and kids waited in
line to get our cash. I made it there and back in plenty of time, as there was
still quite a bit of waiting left to go.
Dinner at Arnolds |
We finally got our chance and both adults went with the
lobster roll - the hot butter version. The kids did a burger and hot dog. We
also shared an order of onion rings. It was all incredibly good, though I was
sad that our cash got used up on food and had none left to try any of the
delicious and refreshing looking adult beverages. Although it was incredibly
late, our kids were not going to leave without the promised ice cream. Our kids
typically will hear “no” and let something go pretty quickly – but if we say we
can get ice cream, then try to back out, we risk going into a code red
meltdown.
We were all ready for bed once we got back to the cottage
well past 10pm.
Day 2:
Our second day was really going to be our only full day
together as a family due to the conference and then departure day. We started
off having breakfast in the cottage. The kids were very eager to mini golf, so
we decided to do that first thing in the morning. We went the Red Barn on Rt 6.
I found an online coupon for it, but wasn’t able to use it because I couldn’t
print it! Boo. The golf course itself was mediocre, and my kids both get
crazily competitive while mini golfing, so it was a bit of an exercise in
patience for us. The Red Barn also helpfully dumps you directly into a (fairly
crappy) arcade. Knowing my kids, I didn’t even wait for them to ask – I gave
them each $5 to spend on games. My six year old somehow managed to hit a
“jackpot” on a machine and it ended up pumping out something like 100 tickets.
While this was kind of crazy and funny, it meant picking out a bunch of junk to
buy with the tickets. The options at all arcades are usually bad, but this was
definitely some of the worst that I have ever seen for prizes. We ended up,
unsurprisingly if you know my kids, with a whoopi cushion and a fake beard.
Ticket Jackpot! |
After mini golfing, we headed back to our cottage for lunch
and decided to head back out to Sunken Meadow beach. The easiest way of doing
that was to drive the whole family out there and drop them off, drive back to
the cottage, and then bike down. We would have otherwise needed to buy a
parking permit, and it was not clear if it would even be available to purchase
on a Sunday. It very well might be, so if you are too far to do the drop off
option, look into it. The police were definitely out there checking.
Mini Golfing |
At the time we arrived, the tide was WAY in. Like there was
almost no beach. There was a steep but short hill leading to the edge of the
water. We sat at the top of the hill. We played and relaxed at the beach for a
long time, playing in the sand, checking out the incredibly warm water, and
snacking. It was very windy, so we had to keep our umbrella closed, but the air
temperature was perfect. A little shade would have been nice, but it was not a
big deal not to have it.
While at the beach, I decided to call the restaurant where
we had reservations for that night because I started to wonder if it would
really be kid-friendly. The host was definitely skeptical, but helpfully
mentioned that Harry Connick, Jr had been in there a couple of week ago with his
kids. Oh, um, ok. We canceled.
After we packed up at the beach, we decided to drive out to
Provincetown even though we no longer had reservations. It’s a beautiful drive,
especially when you hit Truro, and we took the scenic route around the tip of
the cape. It was last afternoon and the light was getting a bit long, and it
was perfect. We found a parking spot without too much trouble.
We started walking around we immediately realized that it
was bear week. http://www.ptownbears.org/ While I am more than fine with my kids seeing
large, often scantily clad men with beards, the problem for us was finding a place to eat.
Everywhere had a wait. We settled on one spot, told it would be 20 minutes, but
after half an hour, were told it would be another half an hour. The host was
very rude, so we decided to leave. We ended up in this little food court area
where all of us got different things. My son branched out and tried Brazilian
food – braised beef sliders with cheddar bread and a Brazilian soda. My
daughter got a quesadilla, my husband a lobster roll (least favorite of our
trip – very small, though not bad tasting), and I got fish tacos. Those were
excellent though also small. We next headed for ice cream at Abbott’s. My
husband and I tried their liquor infused flavor, I think it was mudslide, and
that was amazing! The kids got their favorites and everyone enjoyed. We walked
around a bit more before heading back to the cottage.
On the drive home, we noticed that there was the largest
full moon that we have ever seen, sitting very low in the sky and orange. It
was the night after the so-called super moon, but this seemed even closer to
us. We ended up driving out to Marconi beach to get a better view. By the time we got there, it had risen a bit,
but was still incredible. Lots of people were there to see it. Sadly, my iPhone
camera did a simply awful job. The pictures would make you ask why would
someone even take this, but in real life it was overwhelmingly beautiful.
Day 3:
This day was the first conference day, and my son’s
first day doing a summer baseball clinic with the Orleans Firebirds. He found
this himself in a tourist magazine and begged to do it. I was impressed by his
initiative. After dropping my husband off at the conference, we brought my son
to the field. It was $25 for a 2.5 hour drop off clinic with Firebirds players,
at least some of whom will be in the majors at some point in the near future.
The coach organized it, and though he did not run the drills, he was definitely
a presence there.
While my son did that, my daughter and I treated ourselves
to some bakery treats and hot chocolate at Hot Chocolate Sparrow. We then
killed some time browsing at the Christmas Tree Shop before going to first pick
up my son, then husband. The timing worked perfectly.
We wanted to make the most of our afternoon, and explore a
bit around the Cape, so we took off for a lunch spot that I had identified on
Yelp in Chatham. We took the long way around – I believe it is Route 28. The
lunch spot, Ollie’s, was great. I tried the crab BLT, which was very tasty,
though small. Everyone enjoyed their food, though I don’t remember exactly what
everyone ordered. I had a nice large unsweetened iced tea that hit the spot.
After lunch, we kept going in the same direction, out of
Chatham, past Dennis, to Yarmouthport. There we went to a big recreation area
called Bass River Sports. They had everything from a driving range (the big
draw), batting cages, go-karts, kickball cages (a first for us and really fun),
to an arcade with more crappy prizes.
We did all of the above and enjoyed it a lot. The go-karts
involved a fairly long wait, but it was not a big deal and the kids ended up
loving it. They both had to ride with us due to height restrictions.
After spending a lot of money and a few hours here, we
started the journey back. We stopped in Dennis for a well-known ice cream shop
called Sundae School. Very tasty, very much worth a stop. Our kids, however,
decided to start bickering and making ungrateful comments and complaints. So
for much of the trip back, my husband and I list off all of the ways that we
are bad parents and how we promised to be better. For example, I would say,
“Oh, right, Ben, like the time we took them to the batting cages and on
go-karts, that was really not cool, we need to be better.” And so on and so
forth.
These hats later caused a fight, but Sundae School was still tasty! |
We cooked dinner at the cottage that night. The kitchen was
tiny, but we made it work.
Day 4:
Tuesday was going to be a more mellow day for us as we were
planning to have my step sister and her family over for an afternoon bbq.
Though it had been threatening rain all day, it held off for us and were able
to grill and hang out outside. In the morning, I ran errands and cleaned up the
house with the kids, so no much to report. I got steaks at a really great spot
called Sam’s Deli. That turned out to be one of my favorite places as they had
great breakfast pastries, tons of snacks, awesome sandwiches, and a spot to get
beer right next door.
After our get-together, we decided it was time to check out
the bike trail. When I booked our cottage, I thought it was close to the bike
trail. But “close” is relative. There was no way to safely ride there. Even
putting aside the fact that our kids are beginners on their bikes and not “road
tested” at all, I would not have even wanted to make the ride alone. So that
meant we needed to find a place to park along the bike trail to access it.
Well, we chose the worst possible spot – the hotel where the conference was
being held. There was plenty of parking, so that was a point in its favor, but
we did not realize how far it was from the trail. The access path was basically
sand. It was not ideal for any of us, but especially for the kids. Once we got
to the trail, it was very nice. It was, however, getting dark and we did not
want to try navigating our way up that crazy access trail in darkness. We did
about three miles total, and that was also about the max our daughter could
handle as she was getting very tired.
For dinner later on we went to a spot called the Friendly
Fisherman for – guess what – more lobster rolls! This was a fun little spot
with a play area for the kids. It was not crowded at all, and the lobster meat
was very generous. Lots of claw meat. Rachel Ray had eaten here not long ago
and given a nice review!
Day 5:
This turned out to be most rainy day we had. It really
poured. Like some parts of the upper Cape had flooding it was so torrential. It
was also the day that my mother in law was planning to visit, which was really
bad luck for her! She arrived sometime around the end of the conference for the
day, and we all hung around a bit deciding on a plan of action. We ended up
going to check out another seafood shack that had apparently been featured on
some other Food Network show. It was called PJs. PJs was also good, nothing
spectacular in the way of lobster rolls. My son kept branching out and trying
new things and decided here that he really liked deep fried clam strips.
Next – more ice cream. Are you noticing a theme?? We found a
place in Wellfleet via Yelp, but did not realize that it was just a counter
without any type of covered seating. There was a brief break in the rain as
soon as we had our ice cream, but then it poured again so we had to huddle on
the covered porch of a nearby candy store. Once we’d all finished and the rain
slowed, we walked around the little downtown Wellfleet area for a bit. There is
not a whole lot there for kids, as it’s largely fancy shops and art galleries,
but there was one really fun spot where we got a few items to keep us busy on
the rest of that rainy afternoon. We headed back to the cottage to rest, and
decided to check out the nearby drive-in that night.
Now, I had never been to a drive-in, so going on a rainy
night and seeing (the only movie playing that week) a movie that I had already
seen was far from ideal. But it was still really fun and something I would love
to try again on a night when we could sit outside for it. The problem with rain
at the drive in is that you can’t even open the windows to cool down, and you
need to turn the vehicle on to use the AC, which doesn’t work well. Plus,
sitting in the car with the windows up resulted in a lot of fogging up, also
necessitating the AC. Dinner also was something of a fail that night. We were
running late, so felt that we had to do something quick before the show. We
went to the Dairy Bar that is part of the drive in complex. Ew. The décor was
super dated, and kind of a fun retro vibe, but the food was awful. All fried
food nastiness.
Day 6:
Thursday we luckily woke up to a beautiful day of sunshine.
The heavy wet air that had been hanging around appeared to have cleared up
nicely. While my husband was at the conference, the kids and my MIL and I
ventured back to the drive in – this time for the flea market. The Thursday
market was small, and according to the folks there only a fraction of the size
of the weekend market, but it was pretty empty. The kids each got a little
money to spend. I found a really fun print in a very old frame, and my MIL
bought us both really comfy bohemian-looking shirts.
We then headed to get sandwiches and get packed up for the
beach. We did the same drop off trick again, but both my MIL rode our bike back
out. It was a fun and relaxing afternoon, and though MIL had to leave early, we
all stayed at the beach for quite awhile.
Hanging out with my MIL at the beach - it got sunny! |
Bay Side Beach |
We headed back to Arnold’s for dinner that night, then
headed to Orleans for the Firebirds game. The games are all free, just asking
for a donation, and super fun. We ended up running into not one, but two,
families from our home town, which was so weird. After the game, the kids went
out of the field and met the players. They got pictures and autographs and
chatted with the players, a few of whom remembered by son from the clinic.
Watching the game |
Sunset at the ballpark |
Getting a ball signed by the players |
We did the clinic again on Friday morning. This time, my
daughter and I stayed to watch most of it, after a quick stop at the store for
snacks. As soon as my son was done, we headed back to Eastham to get ready for
our super busy afternoon. We had to pack up some drinks and snacks and all of
our beach stuff, stop to buy sandwiches, and then pick up my husband (a few
minutes late) from his conference. We then headed straight out to the Oceanside
beach in Provincetown, Race Point. The ocean side is very different than the
bay side. The beaches are far bigger, the water is colder, and sometimes the
waves get pretty big. We happened to be there on a day when the waves were on
the puny side, though it didn’t matter because it was too cold to go in the
water.
Playing at the Ocean Side |
Running around Race Point |
We ate our lunch and played around there for a few hours
before heading to Provincetown for our Whale Watch. Unfortunately, we were
super hungry by this point but didn’t have time to grab more food (parking was
a bit of hassle that night). We had to make due with what they had on board the
boat, which was not much. This was the last boat, known as the sunset cruise.
It left at 5 and returned around 8. On the negative side, it was cold and we
only saw a few whales. On the plus side, the whales we saw were awesome and the
sunset was spectacular. If we do a whale watch again, we’d probably try for an
earlier boat which we had heard had seen a lot more action. Everyone got the
sea legs, though my son was a bit overly dramatic at first and claimed to need
Dramamine – which they gave away by the handful on board.
Heading out on the Whale Watch |
A Whale! |
Silly kiddos on the whale watch |
Sunset from the boat |
Dinner turned out to be another debacle. We decided to forgo
PTown, where we could not get in to any of the spots that we wanted to try, and
stop at spot on Route 6 on the way back to the cottage. I called to ask what
time they closed and was told 10pm. When we showed up at 9pm, however, the
kitchen was closed and we were turned away. It was very disappointing, and they
were also very unfriendly and did not seem to care that we had been given
incorrect information. In fact, they acted like we were bothering them to even be
there.
After much Yelping around, I found a spot near us called The
Local Break. It was open and still serving food, though it was essentially a
bar. We unapologetically sat down with our kids and thoroughly enjoyed our
meal. While the mac and cheese side that I had was gummy and lacked flavor, the
avocado soup was to die for. The beer was cold and cheap. The kids had stuff
they liked. And the folks were very friendly.
Day 8:
Time to go home. I completely screwed this up because I
believed our check out time to be noon, whereas it really was 10am. So we had a
very leisurely morning, involving some pastries and playing outside, then
around 11am got serious about packing. It was about then that we got a call
from the landlord asking what was going on. Oops. Profuse apologies from me. We
were out of there finally by 12:10 or so. We decided on another round of mini
golf, followed by lunch on the way off the Cape, and another ice cream stop for
good measure.
We did the mini golf at Arnold’s, and this time just the
kids played. That was cheaper and quicker and lead to less competitiveness
overall. We then headed back up the Cape, but took one of the more scenic
routes along the bay instead of the main highway. We stopped a cute lunch spot
that even had a Yelp check in special (but horrible internet service). We ate
on the deck and had some tasty, high-quality food. Next, of course, was the ice
cream spot. Another win.
By the time we got to the bridge, any traffic that had been
was pretty much gone – it as probably about 4:30pm on Saturday. We were home by
7, which was not bad as we at least had all day Sunday to recover.